Last night's softball game was cancelled causing a change in plans. My daughter and I decided to hit the local bookstore. She headed for the young readers section and, after looking at the best-seller shelf, I headed over to the "Law" section. I'm always interested in seeing the "self-help" books being sold to the unsuspecting public. Two topics dominate legal self-help books: family/divorce and estate planning. Two areas affecting the "2 Big F's" that matter to your happiness and sanity on a daily basis: Family and Finances.